OK, let me try another example to introduce the next request. Have you ever tried to learn how to ice skate and everybody told you how easy it is, but when you tried it for the first time, you found out that it was totally the opposite of what they told you?
Women feel this way when they are going to dance with you, and end up wrestling you out on the dance floor instead of having fun, leaving them with broken nails, bruises, and their hair all over their face.
The Solution: what women want AND find attractive is for you to be sensitive, and yet mysterious.
Hmmm, exactly! Class dismissed.
Ok, you can be decisive, even a little macho, without being overly physical. A softer grip is what she had in mind, even though people misunderstand the term “a strong lead.”
You do not need to tear off a woman’s arms to get her to follow you. A good lead should be able to indicate clearly and painlessly which way you would like your partner to go.
Word of warning, guys… Don’t forget that if you use your thumbs to clamp down on your partner’s hands, she has the right to dig her nails into you in return.
So, hold her in the same way you’d hold a delicate and beautiful vase. Make sure she is protected. And when it comes to mystery, always remember, only you know what you are going to do. She doesn’t have any idea which steps you will lead, so don’t be afraid to change up your dance repertoire. This is what women want, I mean, really want on the dance floor
This way you will always leave her wanting more… I think I said enough here!!